***All comments between* are mine. Found this email yesterday while cleaning out mail folders. Note the date, this was 8 days after the witch wrecked my world, was exposed as the lying back stabber she is, I'd just been to court re: spousal support(I won). My ex called me that night. Whining he couldn't afford to pay me and maintain an apt. He asked me to move in that very night. Allegedly, we'd work together to get Ahmi back. As I discovered later, all BS! I will post his part of conversation in a few days.***
Sent: Thu 2/3/2011 5:50 PM
To: Bill Connearney
Subject: Update
Hi, Bill. I hope that you are doing ok.
I saw AC today and she is doing very well considering. She is happy and smiling often. The family says that she talks a lot about you, more than Lynn for whatever reason. (Perhaps she is just avoiding that other loss right now.) She did so with me today, as well. Today she was informed the Court's decision for her to remain with this family and because she internalizes she did not have as large of a reaction as I would have expected. I waited a week to tell her because I thought moving to a new home and getting this news all at once was too much. The family is going to be encouraging her to talk and let out her feelings, as I suggested her to do. They have been very good about honoring you and Lynn's name in their home and helping to keep her memories alive. She actually has taught them a game she used to play with you where she runs into your belly and you make a noise. They play it in the home with her.
***It never occured to you witch that was because she was hurting inside, mad at me? Also, one of your many BS statements was,"She's talking about you too much. It interfers with the bond they're trying to build with her." Which is it? Liar!?***
I spoke to AC about you having her things and that I'm going to get them for her so she can have her old things at her new home. She would like to see you so we should plan on meeting at a park or somewhere in a couple of weeks. We can keep in touch about a day and time that will work.
As much as I think AC should see Lynn too I am concerned about Lynn handling it emotionally and how this may affect AC. I have to weigh the two and make the decision that I think is going to make her as comfortable as possible in her new home because it is something that isn't going to change, it's the Court's order. I am afraid that Lynn isn't in a place to support the placement and this could have negative consequences for AC. When parents don't support a child's new home it can feel scary to the child to go back there, "If my Mommy doesn't like it then I can't either". I have shared this with Lynn. The family seems open to having a visit with you in the future too, but they are concerned with their private info being shared with Lynn by you. We would have to feel that you could keep certain information private no matter what. Having said this though I feel deeply for Lynn even though she doesn't believe me. I can't imagine what she is going through. I feel very, very sad for her. I don't know how she will ever rebound.
I have a couple of questions. Do you know of some dinners/food that AC likes? She apparently says she likes things and then the family will cook it and she doesn't like it. Maybe just a matter of different styles of preparing the dish. They want to make her meals she enjoys.
Also, she says she can't get her eyes wet because it makes them tear. They are hoping this is just the common 4yo doesn't like water in her face stuff and doesn't have anything to do with her eye procedures. They wondered if you knew about this.
Thanks for your time, Genny Wrocklage, MSW Protective Services Worker
Sent: Thu 2/3/2011 5:50 PM
To: Bill Connearney
Subject: Update
Hi, Bill. I hope that you are doing ok.
I saw AC today and she is doing very well considering. She is happy and smiling often. The family says that she talks a lot about you, more than Lynn for whatever reason. (Perhaps she is just avoiding that other loss right now.) She did so with me today, as well. Today she was informed the Court's decision for her to remain with this family and because she internalizes she did not have as large of a reaction as I would have expected. I waited a week to tell her because I thought moving to a new home and getting this news all at once was too much. The family is going to be encouraging her to talk and let out her feelings, as I suggested her to do. They have been very good about honoring you and Lynn's name in their home and helping to keep her memories alive. She actually has taught them a game she used to play with you where she runs into your belly and you make a noise. They play it in the home with her.
***It never occured to you witch that was because she was hurting inside, mad at me? Also, one of your many BS statements was,"She's talking about you too much. It interfers with the bond they're trying to build with her." Which is it? Liar!?***
I spoke to AC about you having her things and that I'm going to get them for her so she can have her old things at her new home. She would like to see you so we should plan on meeting at a park or somewhere in a couple of weeks. We can keep in touch about a day and time that will work.
As much as I think AC should see Lynn too I am concerned about Lynn handling it emotionally and how this may affect AC. I have to weigh the two and make the decision that I think is going to make her as comfortable as possible in her new home because it is something that isn't going to change, it's the Court's order. I am afraid that Lynn isn't in a place to support the placement and this could have negative consequences for AC. When parents don't support a child's new home it can feel scary to the child to go back there, "If my Mommy doesn't like it then I can't either". I have shared this with Lynn. The family seems open to having a visit with you in the future too, but they are concerned with their private info being shared with Lynn by you. We would have to feel that you could keep certain information private no matter what. Having said this though I feel deeply for Lynn even though she doesn't believe me. I can't imagine what she is going through. I feel very, very sad for her. I don't know how she will ever rebound.
I have a couple of questions. Do you know of some dinners/food that AC likes? She apparently says she likes things and then the family will cook it and she doesn't like it. Maybe just a matter of different styles of preparing the dish. They want to make her meals she enjoys.
Also, she says she can't get her eyes wet because it makes them tear. They are hoping this is just the common 4yo doesn't like water in her face stuff and doesn't have anything to do with her eye procedures. They wondered if you knew about this.
Thanks for your time, Genny Wrocklage, MSW Protective Services Worker
***Witch you didn't even give me a freaking chance! Talking behind my back with a scum bag piece of crap liar, who KNOWS SQUAT!!! I was her primary caregiver, spent 24/7 with her. Bill didn't even freaking want her the first 2 years! You stupid piece of human trash!!
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